Create Your Own Heart-Shaped Aperture

I came home yesterday to Anna crouching on the floor with camera and a piece of cardboard in hand, taking photos of a bunch of mini-lights. Once I finally figured out what kind of effect she was playing with I got really excited. You can buy creative aperture kits (also called “bokeh”) that will help you achieve the “scattered star” kind of effect, but you can also make your own with some scissors and cardboard. The product of our little photo shoot were some fun photos of Olivia. We will definitely play around with this more, but we wanted to show you how you can make your own creative aperture!

Step 1: Cardboard, scissors and light.

Grab some small pieces of cardboard, and cut a shape out of the middle. We played with a single heart, double heart, star and squares. Start with smaller shapes and work your way up. We also tried cutting 3 hearts out in a row, but found that that made it look kinda muddled.

We set up some mini-lights which gave a good starry effect. Play also want to play around with daylight, city lights at night etc.

Step 2: Fire away.

Put your F-stop way down (aperture all the way open), hold the cardboard up in front of the lens and, as they say in hunting, shoot through the heart (or whatever shape you made:)! Play around with the exposure and focus. When your light source is out of focus you’ll create the desired starry effect. Cool huh???

Step 3: Adding a prop.

Putting Olivia into the picture made things a little more complicated (especially considering she wasn’t in the best in best of moods, but that’s another story…). I held her somewhere midway between the lights and the camera. With the shallow depth of field of our 50mm lens at f/1.8 we could easily get Olivia’s face in focus, keeping the lights blurry in the background. We did have to add some extra lighting to to light up her face a bit for these photos.

And that’s about it! No Photoshop required! Give it a try and let us know what you come up with. Or if you’ve already played around with this before, link us up!

We *heart* Olivia

Olivia turned 5 months old today, which called for another photo shoot. And Anna figured out how to make this cool hearty photo happen (with only lights and cardboard!)!

Olivia and the Language of 1000 Faces

One thing that has amazed us as we watched Olivia grow and develop is the variety of expressions displayed on her little face. When she’s happy, her entire head radiates sunshine; when she’s upset, dark clouds roll into every wrinkle. Surprise, joy, curiosity, pain, tiredness, her face says it all.

What I find equally fascinating is watching grown-ups interact with her. Everyone’s seen the most mature, respectable people they know break out the most dorky faces and make the most bizarre noises and babble when they encounter a baby. I’m usually not the most expressive guy, but Olivia has me making stupid faces and noises with the best of them. The fun thing is getting reactions out of her and watching her face mimic your own expression.

“People’s emotions are rarely put into words; far more often they are expressed through other cues.” – Daniel Goleman

If you’ve ever been in a foreign country or have been forced to communicate to someone who speaks another language, you know that there’s a lot that can be communicated through expression and how something is said, rather than simply what is said. One of the big things I learned early on as a public speaker (and still need to often remind myself of) is that my facial expressions and tone are often communicating as much as my words are. When I would consider my posture and tell my eyebrows to get into the game, both my confidence and effectiveness went up a bunch. The secret is not to fake expression (people are good at seeing through that), but to let your emotion that’s on the inside show on your face.

Olivia is great at picking up our facial expressions as well. I’m convinced she can tell the difference between a forced smile and a genuine one. Working on non-verbal communication skills has never been so much fun…

The “Olivia Photostream” begins

Tomorrow will mark one week as a father. Olivia has already brought us more joy than we could have imagined, while at the same time bringing us to the end of ourselves on a daily basis. I had never understood what an enormous undertaking parenting is. But we’re loving every minute of it.

Olivia's Many Faces

I’ve always been amazed at how many pictures some parents take of their kids, it reminds me of Zoolander (don’t you realize, every look is the same!). But now being a parent myself, I’m starting to understand. Maybe parents take lots of pics because kids are just so dang cute, or it might be because it’s impossible in one photo to capture the wonder, joy and hope that is contained in each little life. A picture may say 1000 words, but 1000 pictures can’t hope to capture all the personality and beauty of our little Olivia.

Meet Olivia Brooke